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My boyfriend booked a solo vacation with his friends after saying he was too broke to travel with me
By Seduction Chronicles Editorial
1 min read
I’ve been dating Mark for two years.

I’ve been dating Mark for two years. For the last six months, I’ve been trying to plan a small weekend anniversary trip for us to a nearby beach town. Every time I brought it up, Mark would sigh and say his finances were too tight, his car insurance went up, and he couldn't justify spending money on a hotel right now. I understood and dropped it, suggesting cheap date nights at home instead.
This morning, I saw a group chat notification on his iPad while he was in the shower. His college friends were finalizing a flight and villa booking for a week-end trip to Las Vegas.
Mark had already paid his $800 share for the premium suite, and he was actively texting them about which clubs they should visit. When I confronted him, he got angry and said it was a "mandatory guys' trip" that had been planned for a long time, and that spending money on his friends is an investment in his social life, whereas a trip with me can happen anytime.
I just sat there realizing that he isn’t broke at all; he just doesn't value making memories with me enough to spend money on us. I packed a small bag and went to my sister's house. He keeps texting me saying I'm making a huge deal out of a simple weekend getaway. Am I wrong for wanting to break up over this?

